How a Big Ego Can Derail Your Success in Business

“Big Names” in business and poilitics often bomb in public appearances. Woman holding a picture frameHave you wondered how this happens and if their egos get in the way of their good sense?

Ego is OK in Small Doses

All of us are egotistical to some degree – meaning we are self-centered and sometimes come across as self-important. Who doesn’t want to walk into a room confident that she is the best-dressed guest at the party? But having a big ego in business can derail your success.

It’s egotistical to “wing it” at a presentation without doing the proper advance preparation. It was arrogant of Marissa Mayer, CEO of Yahoo, to keep …Read more…

Wrap Your Negative Feelings in a Tiffany Box and Keep Climbing

Do you often find yourself succumbing to the OMG syndrome? OMG, I can’t do that. OMG everyone is better than I am. OMG I’ll never get ahead. The list goes on of all that negative thinking that you need to banish.

What Did Negative Thinking Ever Do For You?

If you’re about to make a presentation or have a media interview and negative thoughts start popping into your head,Gift box put that negativity into a Tiffany box. Just thinking about the iconic eggshell blue color will make you feel better.

You need to compartmentalize so that you’re “in the moment,” a term that actors use to describe the total focus they need to get into character.

Change the DVD in your head from OMG, they found me out, to “I’m so glad to be here.” Feel …Read more…

Are You a Memorable Speaker or Just Background Noise?

Are you background noise?

Are you background noise?

As speakers, few of us will ever rise to the level of Winston Churchill, or John F. Kennedy.

But there are things you can – and should – be doing to become a memorable speaker and stand out from the crowd.

What distinguishes you?

One day, sooner than later, take some quiet time to review your speaker “persona.” This includes evaluating your content, your skill in delivering a speech or presentation, your visual appearance, and your likeability.

In going through this introspective exercise, …Read more…

Do You Lack Self-Confidence and Feel Like an Imposter?

The Imposter Syndrome

The Imposter Syndrome

We often meet with executives who want training because they feel they’re not polished presenters. Or, they don’t believe they’re skilled enough in media interviews.

But after talking with them, we learn that what’s really going on is that they’re lacking in self-confidence.

The Imposter Syndrome

If you often feel like a fraud, then you’re suffering from the imposter syndrome. …Read more…