How Do You Keep Your Secrets From the Media?

When the CEO of the world’s #2 bank says there is no such thing as an “off the record”Top Secret Stamp remark to the media, you can take it as gospel.

Not so long ago, Jamie Dimon, CEO and chairman of JPMorgan Chase, spoke to 200+ members and guests of the Financial Women’s Association. When he was introduced, the audience was clearly told that his remarks were off the record. Mr. Dimon smiled and got a lot of laughs when he cracked “there is no such thing as off the record.” …Read more…

Wrap Your Negative Feelings in a Tiffany Box and Keep Climbing

Do you often find yourself succumbing to the OMG syndrome? OMG, I can’t do that. OMG everyone is better than I am. OMG I’ll never get ahead. The list goes on of all that negative thinking that you need to banish.

What Did Negative Thinking Ever Do For You?

If you’re about to make a presentation or have a media interview and negative thoughts start popping into your head,Gift box put that negativity into a Tiffany box. Just thinking about the iconic eggshell blue color will make you feel better.

You need to compartmentalize so that you’re “in the moment,” a term that actors use to describe the total focus they need to get into character.

Change the DVD in your head from OMG, they found me out, to “I’m so glad to be here.” Feel …Read more…

Is It Ever OK to Respond “No Comment” to a Reporter?

Yes, but not in those exact words.

No comment

To comment or not to comment?

The conventional wisdom for media interviews is that you never say “no comment” when a reporter asks you a question you can’t or don’t want to answer.

You Must Answer the Question

Of course, you can’t give the reporter confidential company information, or comment during the quite period preceding an IPO. But you cannot ignore the question. You don’t want to use the words “no comment,” which is like waving a red flag. But many interview subjects think they can simply stonewall the reporter and bridge back to their key messages.

That is a big mistake. The reporter will think …Read more…

Do Integrity and Trust Still Count for Anything?

Not to be cynical, but the recent past hasn’t been so encouraging if you still believe that trust and integrity count in this world.

Not so long ago, CNN released the contents of the late Lybian Ambassador Christopher Stevens’ personal journal, after reportedly assuring his family that it wouldn’t. Commenting on the CNN brouhaha, a spokesperson for Secretary of State Hillary Clinton was quoted as telling a reporter to f–k off.

Do Integrity and Trust Count?

The photo of a topless Duchess of Cambridge sun bathing on a private vacation was another media shocker. After the photo appeared in a French magazine, other media took the attitude “they printed it so why can’t we?” So the image is going viral in other countries (but not the U.K.) and so far as we know not the U.S. …Read more…