Wrap Your Negative Feelings in a Tiffany Box and Keep Climbing

Do you regularly wind up capitulating to the OMG condition? OMG, I can’t do that. OMG everybody is superior to me. OMG I’ll never excel. The rundown goes on of all that negative reasoning that you require to banish.

What Did Negative Thinking Actually Accomplish For You?

If you’re going to make a presentation or have a media interview and negative considerations begin popping into your head,Tiffany gift box put that negativity into a Tiffany box. Simply thinking about the famous eggshell blue color will cause you to feel better.

You need to compartmentalize so that you’re “in the moment,” a term that entertainers use to describe the complete focus they have to get into character.

Change the DVD in your head …Read more…

Why Memorizing is a Dirty Word

Unless you’re a professional actor who is paid to learn his lines, Identitydon’t try to memorize your presentations — virtual or in-person. Why put more pressure on yourself when you’re already anxious in front of an audience?

Memorizing is a no-win strategy. Instead of engaging with the audience when it’s time to speak, you’re inside your own head trying to remember your lines. It will be panic time if you forget your opener and scramble to fill the void.

Your audience will sense your discomfort and they will become uncomfortable, too. You certainly won’t gain the audience’s confidence if you’re struggling for something to say while fidgeting and …Read more…

Your Client’s Executive Assistant Can be Your Best Friend

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Your Best Friend

CEOs and other top-ranking executives these days are glued to their computers like the rest of us. But a high-powered executive assistant is still an essential fixture in the executive suite, even if her boss types his own memos.

In fact, she has taken on more important responsibilities in an increasingly fast-paced business world.

One thing has remained a constant. She still serves as the gatekeeper for her busy boss. …Read more…

Can a Big Ego Derail Your Success in Business?

“Big Names” in business and politics often bomb in public appearances. Woman holding a picture frameHave you wondered how this happens and if their egos get in the way of their good sense?

Ego is OK in Small Doses

All of us are egotistical to some degree – meaning we are self-centered and sometimes come across as self-important. Who doesn’t want to walk into a room confident that she is the best-dressed guest at the party? But having a big ego in business can derail your success.

It’s egotistical to “wing it” at a presentation without doing the proper advance preparation. It was arrogant of Marissa Mayer, CEO of Yahoo, to keep …Read more…